This lesson took me a really long time to learn. I've hurt people. I know I have. I don't need it pointed out to me. I don't need other people telling other people about it. I don't need other people to act like it doesn't matter. It DOES matter. I've been hurt by people. I don't need to point it… Continue reading You Can Forgive Without Forgetting
There are very few things on this wonderful, rotating planet that get better when you continue to bother them. Very few. One of the strange things I learned while taking Paxil was the art of bothering. I just couldn't leave things alone. If there was a chip of paint on the wall, I had to… Continue reading Leave It Alone
A few weeks ago I talked about my newly discovered love of Podcasts. During my alone time in my mobile sunroom (my car) I love listening to interviews and Oprah interviews are some of my favorites. One that really changed how I see things was her talk with Geneen Roth, the author of Women, Food… Continue reading Moments of Choices
I find it terribly sad that I've heard more people say "I hate the holidays" than "I love the holidays". Even though I totally understand it ... I find it really sad. If you're overwhelmed by all the stuff you have to get done for the holiday season then you're really missing the reason for… Continue reading Simplify the Season
I have a banker friend (yes, I do have A friend) who I talk to every few months about important life issues and the world in general. He's a hell of a guy and I went to college with his wife, so they've known me a long time and we can pretty much say anything… Continue reading What do we REALLY deserve?