We all want to be liked and feel like we belong. It's another one of those lovely human traits that are hard wired into our brains and souls. The feeling of belonging means we'll survive and be taken care of. Being an outsider possible means starvation and exposure on so many levels. Belonging feels good.… Continue reading You won’t EVER be everyone’s cup of tea
The easiest way to start simplifying your life is to think of the things that really seem to stress you out and for most of us, at some point in our lives, that's money. My primary money goal is to be out of debt, but wishing that we didn't have any debt or that we'd… Continue reading Are you Sabotaging your Money Goals?
It's taken me quite a few years (and I'm still learning) to realize that even though I know something should be done a certain way, that doesn't mean I'll have the motivation to do it. I've also learned that motivation can come AFTER I start doing it, like a ball that I start rolling, just… Continue reading Are you Sabotaging your Self Care?
This year for Valentine's Day we did the same thing we usually do for Valentine's Day ... not much of anything. We just aren't really big on presents and D sure isn't big on surprises, so we made plans just to buy candy the day AFTER when it goes on sale. The night before I… Continue reading Self Sabotage …. When Chaos feels Comfortable
I think I have. That's why my word for 2019 is ... Uncomfortable. I'm going to use it as a reminder that not feeling perfectly okay with each and every situation is actually keeping me from achieving my goals, overcoming my bad habits, and changing my life. I know in my brain that when I… Continue reading My Word for 2019 … Uncomfortable